Episode Five: A Path to Pregnancy

Episode Summary

CWHC’s Alternative Insemination (AI) Program was the first in the midwest specifically  designed to provide a path to pregnancy for folx who didn’t have access to sperm. In this episode, Mirror and a Flashlight explores the past and present of this groundbreaking program. First, we talk to Terri Kapsalis and Sandy McNabb, two early members of the program, about how CWHC shifted the landscape of parenthood for queer people seeking pregnancies. Then, we’ll meet Noshaba Bhatti, the current AI Program Coordinator, who shares what access and visibility look like today.

Learn More

For more information on some of the topics discussed in this episode, we recommend the following resources:

  • CWHC’s Self-Exam Kit includes a speculum, a mirror, a flashlight, and a self-exam guide for individuals with cervixes to learn more about their body, including cervical mucus. Self-Exam Kits can be purchased online in our Corner Store.

Resources referenced in this episode:

Books on Birth, Birthing Justice, and History of Grand (Granny) Lay Midwives:

Books on fertility awareness, understanding menstrual cycles, and reproductive health:

Books for Queer, Lesbian, and Single people attempting pregnancy or already parenting:

Films about Birth:

  • The Business of Being Born (there is a part two to this film, which is a one-season series that was made available on Netflix) 

  • Bringin' in Da Spirit

  • All My Babies: A Midwife's Own Story: an instructional film following granny midwife, Miss Mary Coley, and detailing the births of black people living in rural America in the 50's

  • Freedom for Birth: The Mothers' Revolution - available to watch for free here with a library card

  • Orgasmic Birth: The Best-Kept Secret

  • The Birth Reborn: a series of 3 films about birthing in Brazil, available on Netflix

*Some of these resources can be difficult to locate. We recommend checking with your local public library for titles that might be hard to find.

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  • Learn more about our Alternative Insemination Program here.

  • For information on our Introduction to Alternative Insemination workshops, click here.

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Episode Credits

This episode was produced by Ariel Mejia and edited by A.J. Barks, Sarah Rebecca Gaglio, and Terri Kapsalis, with editorial support from Lisa Schergen.

Thank you to Sandy McNabb, Noshaba Bhatti, and Terri Kapsalis for participating in these conversations.

Mirror and a Flashlight is made possible by our community of support. Our special thanks to Corbett Vs Dempsey, Women Unite!, Early to Bed, Women & Children First Bookstore, Laura McAlpine Consulting for Growth, and Mats Gustafsson and Catalytic Sound.