Episode Five: A Path to Pregnancy
Episode Summary
CWHC’s Alternative Insemination (AI) Program was the first in the midwest specifically designed to provide a path to pregnancy for folx who didn’t have access to sperm. In this episode, Mirror and a Flashlight explores the past and present of this groundbreaking program. First, we talk to Terri Kapsalis and Sandy McNabb, two early members of the program, about how CWHC shifted the landscape of parenthood for queer people seeking pregnancies. Then, we’ll meet Noshaba Bhatti, the current AI Program Coordinator, who shares what access and visibility look like today.
Learn More
For more information on some of the topics discussed in this episode, we recommend the following resources:
CWHC’s Self-Exam Kit includes a speculum, a mirror, a flashlight, and a self-exam guide for individuals with cervixes to learn more about their body, including cervical mucus. Self-Exam Kits can be purchased online in our Corner Store.
Resources referenced in this episode:
The 1990 Chicago Lesbian Kiss-In featured on the 10% Show: made available through the Gerber Hart Library and Archives: Midwest LGBT History and Culture website.
The Age That Women Have Babies: How a Gap Divides America: New York Times Article by Quoctrung Bui and Claire Cain Miller, August 4, 2018.
Books on Birth, Birthing Justice, and History of Grand (Granny) Lay Midwives:
Birthing Justice: Black Women, Pregnancy, and Childbirth edited by Julia Chinyere Oparah and Alicia D. Bonaparte
Killing the Black Body: Race, Reproduction, and the Meaning of Liberty by Dorothy Roberts
Deadly Delivery: The Maternal Health Care Crisis in the USA, a report by Amnesty International: the full 154-page report can be viewed and downloaded for free here (also available in other languages).
Listen to Me Good: The Story of an Alabama Midwife by Margaret Charles Smith and Linda Janet Holmes
Why Not Me: The Story of Gladys Milton, Midwife by Wendy Bovard and Gladys Milton
The Women Who Caught the Babies : A Story of African American Midwives by Eloise Greenfield
Delivered by Midwives: African American Midwifery in the Twentieth-Century South by Jenny M Luke
Motherwit: An Alabama Midwife’s Story by Onnie Lee Logan
My Bag Was Always Packed: The Life and Times of a Virginia Midwife by Claudine Curry Smith and Mildred H.B. Roberson
Granny Midwives and Black Women Writers, Valeria Lee
African American Midwifery in the South: Dialogues of Birth, Race, and Memory by Gertrude Jacinta Fraser
Books on fertility awareness, understanding menstrual cycles, and reproductive health:
A Donor Insemination Guide: Written by and for Lesbian Women, Lacy Frazer and Marie Mohler
Taking Charge of Your Fertility: The Definitive Guide to Natural Birth Control, Pregnancy Achievement, and Reproductive Health by Toni Weschler
The New Essential Guide to Lesbian Conception, Pregnancy and Birth, Stephanie Brill and Kim Toevs
The Fifth Vital Sign: Master Your Cycles & Optimize Your Fertility by Lisa Hendrickson-Jack
The Ultimate Guide to Pregnancy for Lesbians by Rachel Pepper
Books for Queer, Lesbian, and Single people attempting pregnancy or already parenting:
Considering Parenthood: A Workbook for Lesbians, Cheri Pies
For Lesiban Parents: Your Guide to Helping Your Family Grow up Happy, Healthy and Proud by Suzanne M. Johnson and Elizabeth O'Connor
The Lesbian and Gay Parenting Handbook, Creating and Raising our Families, April Martin
The Lesbian Parenting Book: A Guide to Creating Families and Raising Children by D. Merilee Clunis and G. Dorsey Green
Pride and Joy: A Guide for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Trans Parents by Sarah Hagger-Holt and Rachel Hagger-Holt
Lesbian Parenting: Living with Pride and Prejudice, Katherine Arnup
The Queer Parent's Primer, Stephanie Brill
The Single Parent Resource Book, Brook Noel and Art Klein
Single Mothers by Choice by Jane Mattes
The Complete Single Mother by Andrea Engber and Leah Klungness
Films about Birth:
The Business of Being Born (there is a part two to this film, which is a one-season series that was made available on Netflix)
Bringin' in Da Spirit
All My Babies: A Midwife's Own Story: an instructional film following granny midwife, Miss Mary Coley, and detailing the births of black people living in rural America in the 50's
Freedom for Birth: The Mothers' Revolution - available to watch for free here with a library card
Orgasmic Birth: The Best-Kept Secret
The Birth Reborn: a series of 3 films about birthing in Brazil, available on Netflix
*Some of these resources can be difficult to locate. We recommend checking with your local public library for titles that might be hard to find.
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Learn more about our Alternative Insemination Program here.
For information on our Introduction to Alternative Insemination workshops, click here.
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Episode Credits
This episode was produced by Ariel Mejia and edited by A.J. Barks, Sarah Rebecca Gaglio, and Terri Kapsalis, with editorial support from Lisa Schergen.
Thank you to Sandy McNabb, Noshaba Bhatti, and Terri Kapsalis for participating in these conversations.
Mirror and a Flashlight is made possible by our community of support. Our special thanks to Corbett Vs Dempsey, Women Unite!, Early to Bed, Women & Children First Bookstore, Laura McAlpine Consulting for Growth, and Mats Gustafsson and Catalytic Sound.